I need some serious help here. My best guy friend "shane" is seeing my crazy roommate who i can't stand. I live next door to my best friend. My roommate and I needed someone to move in, so we found this girl "Crazy" on Craigslist. She seemed very sweet at the time, but she ended up being a nightmare. She puts on an act for shane, but not for anyone else. All of his friends, his brother, everyone hates her.
Shane is the nicest kid ever, but he lacks confidence in how amazing he is, and settles for these awful girls, just so he can have a girlfriend. He's getting laid, so it's a good deal for him. She has a drinking problem, she treats him like crap, she spies on him, and she has shown a lot of reg flags of trying to trap him. I have tried to have a conversation with him about it (so has all of our other friends). But he laughs it off. He told me when he was drunk one time that he likes her for sex and he couldnt name anything he likes about her. he thinks he can't do better. we've all tried, but it has yet to end.
He does whatever she says and it's starting to really effect me. I used to get away from how awful she was by hanging out with him, but now i can't. she's everywhere. i just feel so uncomfortable at home, with my group of friends. she's just a constant pain. i just can't take it anymore. my other roommate can't either.
now, where this problem gets tricky, is that shane has always had a huge thing for me, and you can tell that he still does. he acts so much more interested in talking to me then when he talks to her. i make him laugh, she doesn't. crazy is starting to pick up on this now. she is getting very irritated and i'm scared i'm going to lose my best friend.
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Sometimes, you just have to let your friends make mistakes and handle their own business. You can warn them, tell them what you think, etc. but in the end it's up to them.
If she's a nightmare as a roommate though, that's something you need to address. Don't make it a huge confrontation or anything, but you should all sit down and talk about issues you have and how to make living together run more smoothly. Is it a year lease, and is she on it? I wouldn't continue living with her for longer than necessary.1