I was bullied a lot about the way I look in high school. Being called ugly every day for 3 years (mostly by guys) definitely had a huge negative impact to my self image. I'm a bit insecure, I don't like to be but I can't change how I feel about myself just like that. I'm thinking it's a huge turn off for a guy?
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It's ok at first, but if it causes problems with basic communication and emotional bonding it'll be determined that you're just not ready to date. Things like pulling back from hugs "because you're ugly" will just get annoying and assumed to be playing games.
Insecurity's natural but should only really happen in the first few dates. After that you should be 100% comfortable with each other.1