Is it possible to experience both at the same time? How? And if you found the right person, would the not wanting a relationship part go away?
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I don't think so. I think that part of you where you don't want a relationship will always stays. Everyone has that part of them (though how big that part is may vary) where they don't want a relationship.
Even if you found the right person. I believe every relationship no matter how perfect it seems, it always have flaws. So even if there might be bigger part of wanting the relationship, there's still the part of it which don't- the part of you which, eg, like freedom, hate a certain quality of your bf/gf, hate feeling of uneasiness that comes time to time because relationship makes you more vulnerable.
In my opinion, break ups are the result of 'the not wanting a relationship' part being bigger than the 'wanting a relationship' part. It's the matter which part of you is more dominant that makes relationship lasts.1