I've been involved in a Christian group at the college I go to and I can happily say I've been really feeling at peace with these people. A few years ago to even a few months ago I did many things I wasn't proud of, many bad habits, bad influences, etc. I am very experienced sexually, I've had many partners and one night stands, this used to be something I grew very proud of but things have changed.
From what I see most guys and girls in this group are very pure and were raised in the church life, and knowing what I've done in the past I feel kind of like the odd guy out. I've tried to get to know some of the girls just through conversations but I'm afraid to tell too much.
Do y'all think they will think of me negatively if they know about my past? This may sound ridiculous but I'm afraid if they know I'm not a virgin this will have a negative impact.
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Big part of Christianity is forgiveness and I think this you can just tell. And some Christians are really modern (at least here in Europe), It kind of depends on the church. I do think some Christian girls would prefer to marry a guy who is not so experienced too. But if someone really loves you that should not be an issue.0