I have to message like 50 girls to even get one response. I guess it depends though. Sometimes i'll get 3 or 4 after that. Most of the time I don't get a response. It's upsetting that they read my message and don't respond. Why don't they even give it a chance when I took the time to write a nice thought out message.
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Girls get so many messages on these dating sites they don't usually have time to answer all of the guys. Yes your looks can be a part of it, everyone has their own preference. It can also be the way you write! Try to personalize your messages, pick up something from her profile, be interesting and ask her about her life (but not too much).
When I was on pof, I got hundreds of messages and I'm just average looking, slightly chubby girl... I just messaged with a few guys at a time. I'd say lots of girls are like me.0