I'm a girl who has never had luck in the love department. I always got rejected, meaning they liked me but not enough for something serious. I wonder many times why I am so hideous since I am a really beautiful girl, kind, funny, social, smart and polite but also very goofy. I think I am normal, I am well groomed and dress nicely. I am easy going and don't judge people... especially since I have always been part of an international environment. I have tried to change things about myself for years, trying to figure out what it is that is so wrong about me. Of course the guys weren't always right but its basically something that is wrong with me. I asked several people what it is about me and I never got any real reason. And tbh, so many messed up people find love. But I recently faced heartbreak, everything was perfect but even this guy didn't want me. Everything was fine, we connected and shared everything with each other.. we spoke every day all the time for a whole yr and then he couldn't commit when we finally did kiss. It was a heartbreak that made me realise that even when everything seems fine, I'll still have the same shitty ending I always do. SO I have given up for quite a while... is it weird? Whenever a guy even wants to talk to me now, I just step away because I have already predicted the ending. And you can't blame me, if after every guy where things went wrong.. I no longer have reason to believe a guy could like me enough or that things could end up fine. Anyone else in the same situation? Any words on how to stop feeling pain every single day?
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No sense in avoiding men altogether. You're cutting out some meaningful and fun experiences and friendships in your life if you do. Just don't take it so seriously from now on. You're already getting callous towards it so what's to lose by continuing to hang out with them? You'll never find answers if you just quit. Just keep your mentality based on what you learn and keep pushing forward.0