Alright I posted a question about this same girl the other day, but anon so if just by some rare coincedence she read the question I wouldn't be outed. I really just adore this girl in one my classes. We've studied together twice now and even though it's a bit fast I want to ask her out. I do not know about her relationship status and I don't really want to mess anything up because she's really nice. I was thinking of sending her this text, because I just can't wait to ask her.
"Hey (Name), this may be a bit forward, but I really enjoy studying and talking with you. Would you like to go out to dinner sometime this weekend?"
And if she says no...
"Alright, I hope this doesn't make anything awkward. I'm totally happy being just friends! :)"
I tend to overthink things, but as I said I just really don't want to fuck up because this is the first girl I've felt comfortable talking to and I really just feel like I can be myself around her.
Thanks GAGers so much! You've been an incredible amount of help and even if this doesn't work out the skills and lessons I've learned here are priceless.
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I think your choice of text is great! and if she says no its good that you have a back up text as well which is equally good :) Obviously not just yet, but sometime later if all goes well with your date maybe tell her that you feel comfortable talking with her, I'm sure she would like to hear that :)