A guy in Russia whom I Skype with everyday, and write real letters back and forth to for 2 years. He's in love with me. I adore him and I would die for him but I'm not in love with him. Not to long ago I was like "I think I'm in love" but I realized that we are opposites. (culture is not a problem) opposite as in he is very fragile in the heart and mind, a very safe person, he lives a predictable life, he "can't adopt a child and accept it" (I want to adopt), he loves the food I hate, I hate the food he loves, etc ect. I feel bad because I can't help but flirt with him when he says sweet things that make my heart flutter. I must move to Russia for it to work, and I feel bad because I was planning on moving there but now I've reconsidered. He loves me. How do I let him off slowly and gently. He's told me before that he fears nothing more than to lose contact. (He's a poor stress case) :( I'm afraid he will do something "drastic" if I tell him I can't be with him. His friends and relatives want me to be with him... I just can't :,( what do I do? I'm so sad.
He's in love with me. I'm sorry.
What Guys Said 3
You have to make it clear you're not interested in a relationship. Better for him to find out now than give him false hopes and really break his heart later on down the line.0
Sorry, I lost you somewhere around, "I would die for him" and "I don't love him"1
Cheat on him0
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