I have always dated girls with past relationships before they met me. I always ended dumping the girls because i always feel they chose their ex over me and i just get feel like second rate with leftovers.
How do you get over the feeling of being chosen over?
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Wow. I have the matching mirror-image question to make this conundrum complete.
My answer to your question is this: If she chooses you, you need to understand that she chooses you. She is an autonomous individual - if she wanted her ex, she wouldn't need to ask for your permission to go back to him. And ex-es are ex-es. When they broke up, how do you even know that he dumped her? Did you check to find out if it was HER who didn't want him? In any case, maybe she doesn't even want him any more. I mean come on - she's exploring a relationship with you.
This is my get-them-all question that completes the set: How do I get over a guy who has done exactly what you do, to me? I'd do anything if he'd talk to me and spend just half an hour of my wretched life with me.0