So I am the type of person to think... a lot. Sometimes a little more than I should but I like to be prepared mentally and emotionally for hypothetical situations. I don't dwell on things but I do think many things through to the point where I have a clear understanding of potentials.
So I ask you, is that a turn off?
If there is a habit that my partner has and I am completely aware that I would not be content with this being a continuing habit if we one day start a family together, I am going to tell him. Not to ask him to change, but to let him know that my lifestyle I wish to have has no room for that habit and if they continue in this relationship with me it needs to be known now prior to things getting to the point to where we have no turning back. So I let them know my hearts desires and feelings about it now before it even becomes a problem because I think about the hypothetical situations if we continue to be together...
I think it is good for foundation...
- Turn Off. I would hate that.Vote A
- Turn On. Good communication skillsVote B
- Results/Other/ExplainVote C
I am dating a guy who smokes weed on a regular basis. I don't mean a couple times a week... I am talking every day. & I don't have a problem now bc he is together.