The question makes me sound hoochie but that's not it. I recently found out that one of my friend's friend whom I have a crush on likes me back (yay! and let's call him Jay). So far Jay and I have been hitting it off pretty well. Now, before I even knew Jay liked me or anything at all, and given the fact that I was single, I made out more than once with a friend (let's call him Tom) who Jay knows as well. I casually asked Jay what he thought about Tom and he said he was cool with him but it wasn't like they were best friends. Now, I don't know if either of them know I've made out with both of them but should I let my crush (Jay) know I had previously made out with Tom or no?
Should I tell him I've made out with his friend?
What Guys Said 4
No, you don't have to because you were single and you didn't know about his feelings towards you. Only if he asks but really, it's your business. If he does find out when you guys are in a relationship together then tell him that you were single at the time and you didn't know if he liked you or not. He can't blame you for that.0
Yes. He will find out eventually and it should be from you. How could he ever trust you if you didn't tell him about something like this? And if he finds out from someone else or some other way it will be even worse. Just tell him, explain you were single and didn't know you were liked back0
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My opinion is that you should tell "Jay" that you previously kiss "Tom" but the reason why is that you were single. Since "Jay" has crush on you back, you & him are going to be together, the only guy you're going to kiss is him.0
YES! You have to tell Jay. It's a cliche, but its true: honesty I key. If Jay freaks out because he's mad that you made out with Tom a while ago even before you two liked each other, then is he really the right one for you? If he's going to get med at you for something that he ultimately shouldn't be mad about? If I were him I would want you to be totally honest and honestly it wouldn't bother me anyway, but if he won't trust you and you two can't be honest with each other about these things then I don't know how the relationship would work out...0
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What Girls Said 2
Just make sure he knows you were single at the time and that this was before you and him were involved. You should be fine0
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