No matter how hard i try to look and feel attractive, i just don't get the same results... or any results for that matter, whether its asking a girl for her number, or even becoming friends with a girl i know that i can't make a girl like me even when i show the best of my personality. i honestly want to kill myself. i notice other guys who get compliments and can easily strike a pose for a picture. Then there is me, i wore glasses all my life, was severely skinny until i told myself that a change was needed. I started working out and got contact lenses and my ego sky rocketed, until i attempted to talk to girls. Every time i send them a message that i am interested they just ignore and give the message that they are not interested. AND DON"T GIVE ME NO PERSONALITY CRAP, BEEN THERE DONE THAT HELL IM STILL DOING THAT. i comfort the girls or help them with their homework and thats all they call me for i hate it. When i ask to hang out they make up an excuse. I've always wanted to be good looking ever since i was a small child and saw my friend get his first girlfriend. I told my self " i want that!" I'm losing faith and feel that i will never live a happy life because i was born with a flawed appearance. i hate my life. I hope the you are able to see the picture i am posting.
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Well I can't see the picture unfortunately but it looks like you've just had to put up with a lot of shit girls. Not all girls are like that you just haven't found the right kind of girl yet. The worst thing to do is to not feel confident about yourself because when you don't feel good about yourself you can't expect others too feel good about you. Why are you hating on yourself? Stop. Honey I'm sure its not that bad and I understand it can be soooooo frustrating but you got to keep going. I am going to give you some personality crap. I am not saying looks don't matter because they do to some extent but there are guys that have such great personalities that honestly I liked their personality so much that they became ATTRACTIVE to me. I'm not the only girl who is like this and I can assure you that. You just have to keep looking. Maybe in different places. You sound like a very nice guy who's just gotten a lot of shit from girls and that sucks! I'm sorry! But you shouldn't lose faith. EVERYONE WANTS TO BE GOOD LOOKING! But guess what, everyone was born looking a certain way for a certain reason and if you're lacking in looks you're certainly not lacking in other areas that some people may be lacking in. Focus on the positive things. Make those positive things known to other people. Please don't hate you life. Life is precious. I know this sucks. Just hang in there and keep trying. You never know who you'll meet :)1
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