Would you be offended or upset if your significant other told you that you weren't one if their main priorities? I don't see why I would be but I wonder if anyone else would?
Most Helpful Guy
Of course it would bother me. I don't know that I'd use the term "offended," but I'd definitely feel hurt by that.
I'm not one of those crazies that needs to be their partner's entire world or anything like that, but when I'm with someone and I love someone they are absolutely one of my main priorities, and they are my favorite person on the whole freaking planet. If those feelings and priorities went unrequited, it'd be a major gut-punch.
Honestly, it's happened to me before so I'm kind of speaking from experience there. Having a great capacity for love can sometimes mean that your feeling won't be met and returned on a level that you'd hope for.0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't be offended because for example in my opinion, their paying job, or their university work for getting a degree is more important than me.1