Guys: It's true, women don't really care about men. But can you actually blame us?

I see a lot of guys complaining about not being able to get sex, dates, etc. This is for guys in general.

Try to quantify how high your sex drive is right now. Now imagine you had around 5% of that sex drive.

Imagine you found women 5% as attractive and appealing as you currently do.

Also, imagine that you could easily have sex with ~70 - 90% of the women you saw everyday, just by asking them.

And now, imagine that every so often, you'd get requests for dates and sex for women.

AND, they'd offer to buy you stuff, pay for your dates, etc.

You wouldn't give a FUCK about women, would you? Because this is essentially exactly what life is like for us girls!


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Most Helpful Guy

  • There's some truth in what the asker says.
    That would explain why women are responsible for more than 90% of marriage failures and divorces.
    I'm still yet to meet one man who ever walked out on a marriage without trying to make it work and hoping it would work. I've met some who eventually had to give up, because their wife just didn't want it to work.

    I would have met thousands of women who walked out on a marriage, and many who didn't need any reason, let alone try to resolve anything.

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    • Shitty attitudes like hers are resulting in a lot of men boycotting women... Feminism... thank you. She is correct about the sex drive disparity , I feel sorry for young guys nowadays !!!

What Guys Said 16

  • Here you go, guys, feminism. Nothing we do will ever be right ever again.

    So, Asker. What messages have you got for all your fellow girls who actually enjoy having sex and take a lot of pleasure from it? I'm sure they don't like you speaking for them. And all the girls who don't only find the top 5% of men attractive? You know, who aren't insisting on bodybuilders and movie stars? What will you tell them? I can already see below that they don't think much of you either.

    So much baggage, it must cost you a fortune to fly anywhere. So much bitterness, anger, entitlement. You speak for nobody but your own misguided self, but at least you had the sense to click on the Anonymous box before posting your bitchy tirade so you can cower behind anonyminity.

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  • Then why do so many women want to get married?

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  • And then the hormone clock starts to slow down and they panic.
    Perimenopause and Menopause when women are not easy to live with. Mood swings bad temper and low libido, but still the idea of high value.
    Then men don't really care and the shoe is on the other foot.
    Do you blame us if we don't really care?
    Lots of people alone.
    See you down the pub.

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  • Yeah I am always surprised how some females' sex drive is so below the minimal threshold that I am somewhat wondering why they aren't trying to desperately preserve themselves. I mean, that is the primal purpose of each biological life form, after all.

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  • Haha. Interesting.

    But, I think you're underestimating most women's sex drive, and I think you're overestimating most men's willingness to have sex with, and buy things for, random women, LOL. I don't recognize myself or almost all of the men I know in that portrayal (there's certainly a few like that, though).

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  • Wow, you seem like a real catch.

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  • Fair lesson. We don't value what we can have in abundance.

    Though when women hit about 30, 35, and suddenly get ignored by all mankind, I understand the value of male attention to them suddenly goes way up. ;)

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  • Yawn. Who pissed in your frosted flakes?

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  • This is the typical modern " woman " . No wonder guys are going solo & giving up on women , so much hate & hostility !!

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  • Can't really argue with that.

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  • WHICH women don't care? You're confusing the issue, sweetheart...

    * When in school, the girls matured before us boys. By the age of 6-8, they were giggling about the 'opposite sex', while we got our erections over trucks and toys!
    * By 14, the boys' hormones started raging. The girls thought we were bizarre.
    * By 22-23, the girls all wanted to get married, and were willing to give sex to get it!
    * After marriage, for the first three years, the wife was crazy about sex. She wanted it every day. She would beg, plead, cajole and caress to get it! I never refused...
    * Three years down the line, she lost all interest. It was as if I didn't exist.
    * 20 years later, It's me who has to initiate. Every time. She will refuse. Reject. Ridicule.
    * When she told me to "find someone else", I did. A divorced woman. Who was deprived of sex, wanted it terribly, and was the hottest thing that occured in my sex life ever.
    * Ironically, her husband had taken off with someone younger. When I asked about their sex life, it mirrored ours! She was fed up with her husband, but found ordinary me great in bed! I've never felt as flattered with a woman. Ever.

    So when you say women don't want sex, you need to specify whom. At what age. Under what circumstances. A woman who has not got sex for awhile, or has no assured supply of it, will sing to get sex.

    Guys need a more steady (if smaller) dose of sex spread out more uniformly.

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    • hit the nail on the head there.

    • Also to add: a lot depends on the situation...

      * I've been in girl-dominated classes or groups. The women there are horny bitches. They'll almost sexually harass the few guys in their midst! Unfortunately we don't believe that a guy can be sexually harassed, otherwise you would have seen a lot more complaints come up of this kind.

      * I was once on a seminar which had a slightly larger proportion of women. Their behaviour was bizarre. Most of the 'available' guys were picked up, pared off and having sexual relationships within a day or two of its start. That too, despite knowing that it wouldn't last beyond 15 days. Those 'left behind' would make desperate to pair up with the others. One told another woman that she preferred me within my earshot. When I politely told her that I was in a relationship and my partner was pregnant, she suggested that the partner needn't know such things! Fortunately she didn't press further.

    • Another time I was visiting a village which has a lot of outmigration (by males, so those 'left behind' are mostly women). Was shocked and surprised by the flirtatious behaviour there. A woman I didn't even know told another woman (whom I was searching for, for the purposes of work) that "Someone handsome has come to see you, on a big motorbike."

      Far from the truth. Neither handsome nor big motorbike.

      Needless to say, like any guy, I was quite flattered. This is the thing that also makes us get into bed with random, ambitious, searching-for-it women!

  • Good to know my mom and sister don't give a fuck about me...

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  • Maybe for most guys but for a female to score someone like me is very rare and very unlikely

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  • Wait till your 30's when you start to expire all those things start to disappear enjoy it while it lasts

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  • Uh oh, someone's off her meds again.

    Poor, miserable little girl...

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  • Hahahah... another insecure, bitter man-hating bitch. LOL.

    Yeah, all the thousands of questions here at GAG every days from girls desperate to know what they can do to get guys to like them... are their boobs big enough for guys to like them, is their butt round enough for guys to like them, are they too short for guys to like them.

    Yeah, they don't care about guys at all. LMAO. You are as full of shit as a port-o-potty at the fair.

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What Girls Said 11

  • this is definitely a bullshit. women have Equal if not higher sex drive than men.

    men are as attractive and appealing as women physically, and much more appealing than women mentally and in personality.

    women have more chance to have 'sex' as they are the ones being approached and because of the polygamous nature of men. But they do not have more or less chance for a committed relationship than a man. and women chase the 'committed' relationship much more while more men chase only sex. so this is not slightly an advantage for women.

    "AND, they'd offer to buy you stuff, pay for your dates, etc."

    you are desperate if you get excited and happy with only the money of a man. and stupid if you think it is an advantage and their duty to pay for you instead of respecting them and their generosity.

    "Because this is essentially exactly what life is like for us girls!"

    no. this is how you feel as an individual. and your behaviour is not slightly feminine. so don't generalise yourself into women.

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    • "this is definitely a bullshit. women have Equal if not higher sex drive than men."

      I'm sorry, but I have to say that your statement is complete bullshit.

      If women like sex so much, how come it's always men who are propositioning women for sex? How come men get the lower responses on dating sites? How come women regularly get hit on by men, but not vice versa? How come prostitution/escort services are almost completely female industries? How come 90%+ of the people on those "involuntarily celibate" forums are men?

      Everything the OP said was 100% correct, but she said so in an abrasive way. Still, that is no reason to deny reality. The sexes will NOT become "equal" simply because you wish it so. You can deny reality, but reality will still exist.

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    • I... can't really understand what you're saying, the English is broken. But if you're an Anthropology major, and you seriously believe that women have a higher sex drive than men, it just speaks to how leftist the field has become.

      I mean, you might as well deny Newton's laws or Natural Selection. You can believe it if you want, but it doesn't change reality, and it won't change the fundamental difference between males and females which has existed for the last 1.2 billion+ years.

  • I don't care about men. I care about man. My man.

    And by "I don't care about men" I mean that I respect them as fellow human beings and as friends and people with just as much right to live their lives as I, but I don't wish to bed them. I found a guy once though and I care VERY much for him.

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  • I don't get your question. Also I think this only applies to you. I care about men , most of my friends are men

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  • 5% of that sex drive? WHAT? lmao... uh... lady... you are quite wrong about that.

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  • No, I think it's just you who doesn't care about any man at all. I care about and appreciate ALL the men in my life, and there's a lot of them.

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  • I care about men , I raised around all boys so speak for yourself & get over yourself wtf.

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    • Thank you for your ( rare !! ) female support. Sadly most young women ( here in the UK ) actually do have these same attitudes , I have already warned my 11 year old son to keep his distance from girls , am also teaching my little girl to be assertive , but NOT turn into a hate filled bitch. Recently witnessed a group of young girls physically assault 2 guys that were minding their own business !!

  • A guy having a higher sex drive and wanting to take me out on a date would not decrease the amount of care I have for him.

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  • I fucking love you right now for posting this

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    • .. tho I should mention that I do disagree about the concept that girls have an extremely low sex drive. For me it's weird, if I've gone without sex for 2weeks I no longer feel any need for it whatsoever up until i get reintroduced to it by someone and then I'm like a fucking bunny rabbit up until sex with them ends and then there's that two week gap and I'm back to having no sexual desires whatsoever.

  • You don't speak for all of us girls

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  • Speak for yourself

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  • Speak for yourself about the sex drive, dearie.

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