I won't go into detail, but my bf days a lot of mean things to me when he is drunk and last weekend he got so drunk told me he would have slept with any girl at the bonfire he went to if there was any worth sleeping with, a bongire he drove to drunk and never told me he was going to, just dropped me off at the house then said a bunch of other stuff, today I asked him why he has to drink and he told me that he wasn't going to apologize because it won't change what he has said or done to me last weekend? Why can't he just say he was sorry?
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Because to apologize would be to lose control, aka the abuse. He wants to have the upper hand over you, even if that means saying terrible things towards you and acting like a jerk. I encourage you to break up with him and leave to find a man you truly deserve!0