Recently my friend Chris introduced me to his friend Peter. We all hung out together in a group, just a big group of friends with some other people. I really like Peter from what I have seen so far. I'm attracted to him. I want to get to know him more. My friend Chris likes me but I've told him numerous times that I just want to be friends because he dated my girlfriend and tried to talk to my other friend too. I don't date guys who dated, slept with or talked to my girlfriends. I just don't like that. And I told him this. Also im just not attracted to him. he's not what i need or want. I recently invited Peter somewhere and he said he probably won't come. I asked him why and he said that he didn't want to step on Chris's toes. Chris really likes you and you should go. I laughed and told him that I don't like Chris though. I explained to him that I don't like Chris and why and that I only see him as a friend. . I'm not even attracted to Chris. But I still think he is apprehensive about getting to know me more. How can I tell Peter that I want him and not to worry about if Chris likes me or not because I don't like Chris at all? We never dated, kissed or anything. I kept Chris strictly as a friend. I don't want to loose my chance with Peter =/ ?
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Show some respect bro, she is asking a legit question. From a guy to a guy we both know that girls sometime trip themselves up. She's asking for a way out.
Obviously Peter is applying the same code that you are (maybe not in the same way) but he is. You are in what they call a love triangle.. you are gonna have to repeat to chris that you don't like him but this time, tell him you LIKE PETER.. that kills two birds with one stone and peter will relax too and open up to you. there's more but hey, there's a guy code lol.0
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