I'm asking this question via my daughter account.
i'm a 41 year old lady.
First off all, i'll like to say that i have nothing against poor people. i'm a person who likes to help others and do charity.
But, right now i have a problem and i'll like to hear your opinion on it. Me and this guy have been dating ( Long Distance relationship) for 1 year. He is 36 years old. But, now since i moved to the country where he lived we have finally met each other.
He lives in Asia. The problem that i'm facing right now is that, he is really poor and i meant that he is extremely poor. He was jobless when i first came here and he has next to no money. Just to make it clear i don't give him a bunch of cash but, i did pay for him when we go out together as in for food... He now
have finally found himself a job which i'm so glad. My mother thinks that our relationship isn't going anywhere and our future is unstable mainly because of the financial problem. You'll have to understand that i cannot support him forever. i fell in love with his kindness and he never asked me for any money. i just wanted to hear your opinion on this. what would you do? if you were me.
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You have to do what's in your rational self-interest. What will make you rationally happy? That means prioritizing the different values you seek.
For example, you say you can't support him financially forever. Do you rationally believe that you will have to support him forever? If so, it's better to break up.0