Any time I asked a question asking why guys don't like me on here the first thing people say is, "lose weight" or "be happy with yourself", when I never once mention anything about my weight or say anything about insecurities. Yes I am overweight but I am happy with myself and if that is the only reason that a guy wouldn't want to date a girl then that is extremely shallow. If guys don't want girls to like them based off of looks then they should really open their eyes and realize that they do it. I have never once liked a guy based on looks, I always become friends with them and over time they become more attractive. If I can look past things why can't others. Maybe instead of assuming a girl is ugly, or fat, or insecure guys should like girls for their personalities and not give them ignorant advice on here.
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While "personality" is important, so is physical attraction. You can't deny that it plays some sort of a role in your attraction to someone. Many guys are not a fan of overweight girls but some are. I couldn't be with an overweight girl and many guys say the same thing. "Chubby chasers" are not as common.
When a guy tries to be sexual with a girl he's not physically attracted to he doesn't get the passion and such and it's like there's a wall there preventing him from getting into the moment. Plus if it's an attractive guy with an unattractive girl, don't think that he may not feel like a "piece of meat" like many girls feel when they're hit on by creeps. A lot of girls claim to be attracted to "personality" but watch them in front of an attractive guy and you'll see it's all a buncha generic statements these girls are using to justify how they are just unattractive to most guys.
Obesity and such are major problems in the US and it's constantly getting worse and worse. This definitely has an impact on dating as well.0