I seem to attract engaged women, or women that have dates already in general. They are extremely nice to me and make me feel bad at times for trying to not get too close to them. They don't flirt but expect me to make moves on them. I know not every nice girl is a cheater but i am constantly seeing very nice girls that I meet gets my attention either has a wedding ring finger, or boyfriend in profile photo. I've been in relationships in which the female had a boyfriend which i didn't know. Most of the time though i keep my distance. Females help a guy out because i don't want to be judgmental on nice girls.
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Ok... here's the thing about nice girls, sometimes they don't realize that their niceness can come off as flirting. Some of them probably just genuinely want to be friends with you, and it just comes off weird. So that may be the case with some of the girls you've met.
Honestly there's no real way to tell who's a cheater and who isn't. I'd say as a rule of thumb, if she's cheating with you she's going to cheat on you. But you just don't know. I think the important this is to keep your integrity, and just be like straight up: I know you have a boyfriend/fiance/husband, and I'm not the type of guy to cheat or help someone else cheat. So you need to respect my boundaries.0