So, I was laying in bed cuddling with my guy and he kept texting. I ignored it at first but when I looked up I seen a females name. I simply asked who is that. He said just a friend.
I didn't say anything else after that but its not the first time I've seen her name on his phone..
We aren't exactly exclusive yet but he always says if I'm going to be I'm going to choose you or that he doesn't talk to other girls...
Should I continue to worry about this because he has been acting a tad shady lately? I don't understand why men hurt good girls if something is up! I'm trying to just trust him but its kinda hard to now days.
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Hey, I'm a single guy with a fair few females as good friends of mine who i either went to school with, or have met outside in the real world, and most of those girls have boyfriends, which, as a respectful guy, i keep the chats to a friendly minimum, and don't make anything out of wink emoticons or playful text, as i don't want to interfere with their relationship... and the reason i chat to these girls is, is because we all either have a common interest, a common sense of humour and understand eachother or we truly just stay close because we have a great bond as friends... another way to look at it is, think of your parents... they have friends, wives/girlfriends generally are the ones who text eachother to organise things, but all in all, it's nothing to be worried about, the only thing you should be worried about is if he tries to hide the screen when you look, or he tries to organise a catch up "just as friends" with her...
and just one more thing, even when i've been talking to a girl im crushing on or crazy about.. or even early stages or late stages of a relationship of which i've had 3... talking to girls can be just keeping them company or giving them someone to talk to... it's not all about sexting, hookups and love... sometimes a friend in need, goes further than that, to a solid friendship :)
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