In my past relationships, we became official and from there, eventually said our "I love you's"... but with the current guy that I am dating, he needs the "I love you" before becoming official.
For you, do you need to be in love the person to be "boyfriend/girlfriend"?
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no you don't need to be in love to be in a relationship. it sounds to me like this guy may have been hurt in the past and wants some 100% guarantee to ward off against any potential disappointment or heartbreak. but it's a bit absurd to feel like you HAVE to be in love to be officially dating someone0