I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks now and I want to tell the world about it as I have fallen for him. However, he is very low key about the whole thing and doesn't acknowledge anything publicly which is difficult for me.
I tag him on photos on Instagram and stuff like that but I never get anything like that back. It's under the radar and he says it's because nobody else needs to know our business. I sorta get the social media angle but I do want people to know that we are at least together. Our friends and family know. Everything is just hinted at
However, he says its all very casual. I even found him following some random girls on instagram but he doesn't follow me. He is all loving and romantic when we see each other but we do live quite a distance apart and I do have a young family and a divorce behind me. He doesn't have any ties or kids. Am I making a mistake by putting this all out there? Should I take my foot off the gas and just see what happens? I really, really like this guy and he knows that but he always manages to sweet talk me round to his way of thinking.
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I honestly think he may be playing you. I was fine till you got to the part of he doesn't follow you but he follows other girls. That's just a red flag to me. But have you met any of his friends or family? Or does only your friends and family know? What does he say to sweet talk you around that y'all are good?1