you've been hanging out with a guy or girl. for a few months. you like each other but you dont have time to date, and or are not sure you want to mess up the friendship.
then one day you decide you to her/him out. s/he says 'I am interested but I will have to get back to you'.
Do you take that as a 'no' by default?
Do you believe them but dont feel like waiting?
Do you believe them and wait?
If you wait how long would you wait?
anything else to add feel free:)
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It is a "No" to me. I don't have time for maybes. The ball is in her court. If she realises that she likes me then she needs to come back and tell me and hope that I haven't moved on
When I ask out a girl it isn't to go straight into a relationship. It is to date and get to know each other at a romantic level. If she likes me too and wants to get back to me it would be in her best interest to tell me why. If she doesn't then the Ball is still in her rcourt1