i went on a couple dates with this girl and she tells me, i just want to be friends. She started calling and texting me daily though and she is basically all over me when she sees me, wants to hold hands, plays with my hair, picks lent off my shoulder, puts her hand on my thigh. She also randomly changed my background on my phone to a heart. I feel horrible because I like her. Is this the friend zone or so I have a chance?
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I would just come out and ask her if she only looks at me as a friend or has her feelings changed. I see your age 30 to 35 so at yaws age she's (should be) mature enough to give you an honest answer. She's taking things a bit too far if she's still looking at you as a friend but doing the things you've listed. Honestly it sounds like to me that (if she answers friend) that she doesn't want you but doesn't want anybody else to have you either. A fall back so to say. I'm sorry this sounds so mean. I'm just being honest.0