A girl I met a year ago.
We were seeing and sleeping with each other for around 3 months. She wanted more , but I told her I can't ( my father was ill and in the end passed away)
After his death we saw a little bit of each other and it
helped speaking to someone. I was still a mess and I could be in a relationship after his death
(in that period she met 2 guys who used and treated her like crap)
We are not spending time with each other and she wants to see if we compatible first..
Thing is.. its been 3 months and we see each other. But there is ZERO affection. Not holdinig hands , kissing nothing. We went on vacation together and it was terribly hard with no affection...
Its now 4 months in , I can't do this anymore. I feel like a donkey chasing a carrot.
She has gone on some "happyness 100 days" over drive and hates that I watch the news and anything negative?
Its just friggen TV?
I told he its impossible for me going from sex to absolutely nothing. I have tried for as long as I could.. But I have needs 2 .
We suppose to go away in the next 2 weeks again. But I feel that vacations are meant for couples that show affection..
High fives just dont cut it...
(after a year she should know enough about me to decide)
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Find a side hoe.
Not really. Don't do that.
Talk to her about it. See whether you're on the same page still, and if not, maybe it's not meant to be.1