I've never really been good at picking up girls but over the summer I met a guy at a bar who was AMAZING with women and we became friends and he started teaching me how to become better with women. He basically told me that if takes lots of experience and practice and that the best way to do that is to just start with going on dates with women below your league that you would never normally even consider dating. The whole idea is that those women are less intimidating and I'll start learning how girls think.
So over the last few months I have been doing that and I've pretty much been taking advantage of girls who are not very attractive and kind of desperate. I'm not actually attracted to any of these girls so I usually go on 1-3 dates with them and then cut things off. I've only had sex with 2 of them so far and it wasn't even my idea. I'm not using these women for sex I'm just using them to get experience and get the right mindset and build confidence. And we also have fun on the dates so there is that.
But I've been getting away with so much crap like it makes me kind of sad that some of these women have so little self respect that they would let a guy get away with almost anything just to make him happy and make him stay.
I'm getting a lot better with girls but I can't help feeling like a huge asshole and a terrible person in general for using these girls.
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Yeah, you are. It's one thing to go on one date... another thing to go one three dates and have sex. They think you want them, truly, and you're just using them as test-runs. "Getting away with almost anything" isn't going to impress the girls you want to date who aren't desperate. Not only is this scheme ill-conceived, it hints at the lack of a moral compass.2