We've gone on two dates and she seems interested. She always arrives 10 minutes late and I know she stays late at work. We text back and forth and she usually takes an hour.
Every time we've gone out, she has faced her legs near me, rubbbed them against mine (after few drinks), plays with her earring, flips her hair, pushes my shoulder or arm. When I go over to give her a high five she slowly touches my hand (to touch it longer rather than to slap). I walked her home and kiss her goodnight (her lips are tense).
I invited her out to my birthday, she said she was going to try to make it, but couldn't (she had previous plans and I told her about it the night before).
I'm used to relationships where when you get going, you usually see each other all the time and constantly in contact. Not the case here, we text casually back and forth and she is usually delayed. So I am wondering how I should handle it? How should I set up dates? I am trying to see her once every few days rather than 1 a week.
Does suggesting to get coffee sometime a good idea? Or just keep everything to a date? We won't be able to do anything this weekend (both headed out of town).
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Just start arranging dates more often. Getting coffee does sound like a good idea, or if she doesn't mind it you guys can just stay in and watch movies.
I think to start seeing her more often you just have to move past the dates and get to more casual hanging out.
She sounds like she's a busy girl though, since she takes longer to reply and usually works late. But yea, if she likes you (seems like she obviously does) she will definitely find the time to see you more often.
You never know, she could be wanting to see you more than once a week to, but just doesn't want to ask in case she seems pushy or something.
I know it shouldn't just be down to the guy to do all the chasing, but if you want to see her more often, just arrange it and make it happen.1
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