hey there everyone.
I met a guy the other day on tinder: we had dinner and then went to a party i had, he was very respectful and nice to my friends. The next day he came to my house to watch a movie we kissed and a touched a lot but decided to go slow. That was a week ago.
Ever since then he talks to me everyday on whatsapp to see how is it going and talk for a couple minutes.
This past Thursday we went to a place to eat and then to a club, to dance a bit, we only kissed once. I don't know if it matters but our first "date" he payed for everything and showered me with attention, this time he was attentive but no as much and he asked to split the bill ( i'm not very used to this, but okay) then he talked to me on Friday and I saw him again yesterday.
Yesterday we went to dinner and a movie and then came back to my house for beers. So we talked a bit and then obvious happened... it seemed to me that he was at the end he was very self absorbed and after sex he fell sleep instantly. He asked me if i wanted him to stay, he said he had a lot of stuff to do but then i would never thought he would actually leave... but he left.
i tried to sleep but i felt bad- this has never happened to me- that a guy has left at the middle of the night after sex... I mean, harsh. So i texted him telling him i was mad at him for leaving, that i felt bad.
So he texted me right at the spot saying he was sorry, that he thought he was invading my space ( but he said he had a lot of stuff to do) then this morning he called me a couple times, said he liked me a lot and that he was not that kind of *******, that he was sorry for making me feel bad... anyway, he said a lot of stuff.
But i don't know what to think, because all the signs are there:
1. he was self absorbed at sex.
2. he didn't stayed the night
3. he is asking me to go dutch on dates with him.
4. He says i'm very attractive and he calls me names like-beautiful
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