I'm 29, female, been single for 1.5years. I've been on about 10 dates in the past 9 months, because before that I felt unready. Anyway, I met this guy through a friend. Super cute, has a good job, a nice place, easy to talk to. I know I like him much more than any other guy I've been on dates with. I want to see more of him. But everytime I see him, its fun, but its not amazing! He's not overly funny, or talkative. We've done all the physical stuff. I like him enough. Its only been a month. Is it normal to feel OK about someone, or should I be feel more excited by now?
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Mmm, I have felt the same way. I turn 30 in a couple of weeks. I honestly think there should be a feeling like you can't help but pick up the phone to talk to them and want to see them all the time. I think you need that drive to want to make them happy and find out more about each other. But I'm also a realist and I know that I'm looking at relationships in a different way than I was 5 years ago and I want different things from a relationship. And now I do struggle to feel that extra something1