So I've been talking/hanging out with this girl for about a month now. she's the type of girl i could see myself dating-awesome family, extremely talented, beautiful. We haven't done anything but make out, i wouldn't have sex with her till we knew for sure that we loved eachother. The thing is, she's 17 and im 20 and its not the age that gets me, were just at completely different stages in life. I have plans to date her, but not till the end of this year when she graduates high school and turns 18. But i still obviously like sex, but i dont want it from her. Being handsome, girls really dig me and sex comes quit easy if i want it. (but im not a manwhore f5cking every girl i see) i actually haven't had sex in like 5 months. Last night though i wwent to a party with these 4 beautiful girls, and we all got shwasted and before i knew it, i wake up butt naked next to one of the girls in her dorm, and we knew we had sex. So my question is, is it ok too have casual sex here and there while im talking to someone? i do feel bad now:(
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Being you seem to want your sweet cake and eat it too,'Im,' it seems you are Not really ready for a Real relationship right now. I feel that getting to know someone whom you say is this dream girl, that instead of going to parties and meeting up with beautiful babes in Toy land, you Could be Nursing and nurturing the relationship that you are Planning on making More Official, comes "The end of this year..."
You're not feeling "So bad" as much as Feeling More guilty than anything. No one really knows what you and this angel have been "Talking about" for the past month, and if you really wanted to end the madness with going cold turkey with no sex, you would have thought about it more before ending up butt naked the next morning.
Yes, I agree that You Are a free agent, no ring on your finger, no being hooked at the hip. I do not dispute this. However, by finding someone who could very well be a keeper down the line, Make sure before you yourself makes any Commitments in the future that it doesn't end up down a beaten path. You may find out that you are not ready nor raring to give up the boobs or the babes and just want a friendship or date with no mate until you can decide what it is you really want. I am not seeing that now.
No, not "Cheating," just "Cheated" her, for I just happen to read your comment a minute ago.
Good luck. xx0