We been seeing each other about 3 weeks now and only this weekend we had sex. Background info: I just turned 23 and he'll be turning 22 at the end of the month.
He was kind of quiet sometimes on the first date. I actually wasn't so sure if he liked me until he dropped me off at my house and said "Wait, I want to give you a hug" before I got out of his car. We didn't kiss until the end of the second date. On the third date onwards to the 5th (last night) he didn't get out of his car to hug me like he normally did or initiate a kiss.
I'm not sure if he's just shy and I even told him (in a joking way) that he's the most timid guy I've dated and laughed while telling him that I like being bossed around sometimes.
When we kiss, it's never just straight to making out. It feels really good but he seems to like to close mouth kiss a little bit before the passionate kissing kicks in and I feel like I'm the one who has to start it. I'm not sure if he was just raised more conservatively... But I'll admit I'm sort of a sex fiend haha I'm really demanding in bed.
I don't know what to think. He always holds the door open for me, pays for me, and gives me his undivided attention. He also initiates texting quite often, more than other guys I've encountered.
When we cuddle he always really gentle and sweet...
just what bothers me sometimes is he says really weird things like
(randomly touches my arm) and points out a mole
comments on my hair is kind of thin
on first date he told me he gets bored easily and he doesn't make girls his gf to avoid drama
But when we're together he doesn't treat me like a fwb. he's really cuddly and kisses my cheek in the cutest way all the time when we're not regular kissing. And we waited just til now to sleep together.
I'm so confused on this behavior, it's like hot and cold.
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He is not interested. He is probably hoping that he will, but it is not happening. By the fifth date, both of you should be getting pretty randy unless you are both religious. I would end this before you get your feelings hurt. I can see that you do like him, and I am sorry about that.0