Since you're not official yet.
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The way I see it, if he asks me out, he's essentially asking me to be in a relationship with me. I would not take kindly to learning there are other girls. Even if it is just casual, I date exclusively regardless of the stage of the relationship.
I even flirt exclusively. If I set my sights on a guy I will flirt only with him and no one else. If the flirtation advances no further and one of us loses interest I will then flirt exclusively with another guy. If I am interested in a guy (and one should assume I am if I agree to go on a date) I concentrate all of my focus, time, energy, and attention on building a relationship with him. I am not one to flirt around or date around and I would be displeased to learn that he was.
Odd logic but there you go.
I know general society would be in favor of seeing others during the beginning stages of a relationship/dating but I am not. One cannot expect to build a solid foundation for a successful relationship when one's attention is not solely focused on the other individual in question.0