I've gotten a lot of interesting comments made about appropriate timelines for real relationships that are going somewhere.
People say... if the guy offers sex on the first date - he's in for a hookup
If he waits around for 2-3 months, he's probably in it for the relationship.
Sex in the first week? Too soon and he'll leave.
Sex in the first two weeks? Too soon and he'll leave.
What's your rule of thumb for dating and knowing a guy will stick around? Guys, how long will you date before really wanting sex?
How often do you talk on the phone the first couple weeks/months?
How often do you see the person?
When is it too early for the first sleepover (without sex)?
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I don't go with a timeline, I do what I feel doing. Girls are different, and maybe one will be more open to physical contact sooner than the other. So for example, if a girl is ok with us holding hands on the first date, I'll probably go for a kiss that day; but if she's not into holding us the first date, I wouldn't think of trying to kiss her.
I'm not into sex the first date either, I don't know, I just don't feel like needing to have sex in the first date, but I wouldn't wait a month if it wasn't necessary.
Like I said before: the more physical contact you have, the faster you'll move in the relationship (this is how I see it, my point of view).0
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