It is literally like every single guy I meet I fall in some kind of love with. I mean I will survey any and every guy in any room I am in, it's almost like I am trying to find my soulmate at every moment of my life. I find myself getting really invested emotionally and then it's like I get my heart broken when nothing happens because I hardly ever pursue anything because i am also totally convinced that there will never be a guy out there for me. How can I try to stop with this erratic and unproductive thought process? It really messes with me when I am always on the look out and i know that ultimately it is my behavior that will change it but I just need help getting out of this weird rut.
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I think you should focus on being happy you have such a loving heart and then be careful not to build walls around it, especially when people/events hurt you. What you have is very precious even if it only seems to be causing you trouble at the moment.
You could do something about the negative thought process though, try and replace thinking about how there is no guy out there for you with something that will make you feel good instead, so long as it's true, like focus on finding a man who will give his heart to you as much as you will to him and how you won't let negative set backs ruin this dream. or something...0