I really don't want him to go as he might end up cheating or something... :/
My boyfriend is going out for Halloween with 2 girls who plan to get drunk with him... I really don't want him to go... Help?
What Guys Said 3
I hate to break it to you, but if he's planning to do this, then he is effectively checked out of your relationship already. And that's not surprising. Long distance relationships simply don't work without a MASSIVE commitment and MASSIVE sacrifice from both people. Clearly, he isn't prepared to sacrifice his fun to stay in and talk with you on the phone instead - he wants to go out and have fun with girls, and since you can't be there, he has replaced you. It will only get worse from here as he figures out that the girls who are THERE, live in front of him, are a lot more fun then you are over the phone.
You need to break up with him and learn this lesson: only date people who are LOCAL, that you can see all the time, because otherwise, your relationship WILL fail. The boredom will set in and the pull of other people will intensify, and one person or the other will "check out" of the relationship. That's just how LDRs go.2
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More than likely he is going to end up cheating on you at this "party". Dump his ass and get yourself a real man who will love and you the way you deserve to be loved and treated!2
What Girls Said 3
Try going with him or EVEN BETTER going out with some of your friends. I mean, if he cheats then it is on him. I'm pretty sure your relationship isn't all that good since there is no basis of trust. Break up with him if he doesn't respect your need to be coddled and might I add, selfish and insecure. You never mentioned if those two girls were his longtime best friends. I know many people who have relationships without needing any extra benefits. It seems to me neither one of you are ready for a relationship. When I say that, I mean with each other.0
just talk to him. tell him how you feel and go from there2
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