Girls, how can a guy play hard to get when he's just an average looking person?
Most Helpful Girl
I'd never recommend "playing hard to get," but, I do think you could use a bit more confidence. When you're trying to attract someone (anyone - potential mates, employers, a group of friends, etc.) confidence plays a critical role. Women are attracted to a man with confidence, because it give them a sense of security, and makes them feel valued as a mate. Instead of worrying about "appearing eager," just take a step back and remind yourself that any woman would be lucky to have you, and keep that mindset apparent throughout your everyday life. You may also want to practice some daily confidence building exercises. Good luck to you!0