I am sure millions experience this and I never thought I would. After 2-3 years of endlessly searching for a boyfriend, falling for guys who never liked me back, and being rejected I just gave up when I met a person who I really liked and they just left me, ditched me, and hurt me. I think it was the "last straw," of course here and there I see nice guys in public who are cute and may try to speak to me (?) not really for a pick up and it makes me want to find somebody again but sometimes I am just so hurt and it just seems like nobody's worthy of my love... that I just gave up.
Sometimes I feel like a deep sadness in my heart but luckily I've been distracting myself and kind of keeping myself busy that I don't seem to notice but its there :(. Does anybody else feel this way?
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lol this is like, everybody. You are in good company, trust me. It's a perfectly natural feeling and it can and will pass. I feel for you, and I'd try to comfort you if I could. But it's something you have to work out on your own. If it becomes something you want to work out with someone else, then you're getting over it.
One thing to consider is why you are searching for this boyfriend. Take some time to reflect on what you're after, why you want it, and what it looks like when you get it. Use this time in your life wisely, and when it passes you'll be better for it.2