This might be a stupid question but I have another coffee date coming up this weekend.. I totally understand why guys suggest it. Thing is I don't like coffee & caffeine affects me very badly (I have hyperthyroidism and my Dr told me to avoid it). I've been on 3 coffee dates in the past few months and each time I can't sleep the whole night after! Would it look rude if I suggested something else for this next one?
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I don't think it wold be rude I actually say grab a smoothie since I usually go for the more fit looking girls. The general idea is to grab something to eat/drink on a one to one basis, if I were to simply say drink it could be anything and anywhere, many girls would then interpret that to different ideas and to what the guy is really asking for. By saying coffee it could just be a small hangout in order to know the other person better in a setting that would be more open, chill and a public place that could be more relaxing and have the other person be more open on their thoughts, feelings and intentions. This would be the make or break in some situations, it;s usually a go to idea rather than a date where the intentions are very clear or not in some cases and amount of effort in a date and just a "hangout" is starkly different.0