I just broke up with a guy 3 weeks ago (actually he rejected me after we were friends for ages, after he fell for me and kissed me but somehow didn't want to commit). Its not the first time a guy doesn't want me. I am a beautiful girl, with a nice personality, goofy and fun but extremely easy going. However, this is what people see on the outside. On the inside, constant rejection has rotted away at my self-esteem. So much so that even when I have to consider a guy, I just don't feel it or don't want anything. I wonder if I will always be so put off men? I guess the last guy was a real blow to my identity since I felt this was the real deal and for the first time I trusted him and gave a part of myself. He wasn't a bad guy, just didn't love me enough. They never do, I receive a lot of male attention and often from the good guys but they just never want anything substantial. Of course I would realise I am just not good enough and this time I really gave up, I don't have a nice image of love or happiness anymore. Its like I am waiting for my parents to find someone for me and I can settle down with anyone. I have given up beyond repair but it surprises me that I don't even find guys attractive anymore. Perhaps I don't dare to? Thanks for any advice or insight!
Its strange but I don't find guys interesting anymore? Is it a phase or something permanent?
What Guys Said 3
To me it seems like u put too much focus of ur self worth, on the approval of men.
Focus on your positive attributes outside of dating, to boost ur self esteem back up again.0
You are either going through a phase or it's not just guys you may have an attraction to. I'm not saying this to be mean, I was raised by a homophobic dad for 14 years and I fooled myself so much I thought I was straight until earlier last year when I finally came out about me being bi.0
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