I think this is kind of awkward if I've dating a new guy and we're finally making plans for the weekend to get frisky, and then just when we're both looking forward to it, my period starts mid-week. I mean, it's awkward to bring this up to him but I feel like I have to and it'd be better to give him a "warning" than surprise him at scene when we're going at it. Now I'm not even sure if I should suggest that we cancel our weekend plan or let it stay on and we can do some non-frisky things. I feel like he's probably thinking it too but doesn't want to appear like a jerk by canceling it just because I'm on period. Ugh just a tricky issue with a new guy.
Anyway is this a turnoff for guys? Some people say that if he really cares about you it shouldn't be a big deal. He also told me he actually doesn't mind it but I feel like he's just being polite. How would you handle this?
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah yeah yeah. Tell him for sure. I think you have to. You just need to ask him if it's okay to still get "fisky" or not. Don't surprise him with it. He'll let you know if he's into red lights or not.
It's a turnoff and a dealbreaker for me, but for many guys they don't care. You say he says he doesn't mind it? Okay. Still tell him though.1