Self Fulfilling Prophecy... does it work?

I want this girl.

I treat her like she's my girlfriend. I talk to her like she's my girlfriend. BUT... she's not my girlfriend.

Do you believe the self fulfilling prophecy works?

Updates:
Turns out it does work.

Got her this weekend! :D

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. In situations that relate to just you, it's helpful to create a positive self-fulfilling prophecy. But when you're dealing with other people like this situation of yours, then no they don't work. You can't force another person to feel the same way as you do. In fact, the more you force it, the more you risk pushing them away.

    You can't just treat a girl like the person you want her to be. If you want her to be your girlfriend, ask her out.

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What Girls Said 3

  • nope not really

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  • Im a firm believer, but not in this case.

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  • lol in some cases. in this case, probably not.

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    • Why do you say that?

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    • I assumed it's a pure friendship (no fwb) and she thinks all you do/say is what a good friend does.

    • No fwb. And no we're closer than just regular friends.

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