I want this girl.
I treat her like she's my girlfriend. I talk to her like she's my girlfriend. BUT... she's not my girlfriend.
Do you believe the self fulfilling prophecy works?
Got her this weekend! :D
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Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. In situations that relate to just you, it's helpful to create a positive self-fulfilling prophecy. But when you're dealing with other people like this situation of yours, then no they don't work. You can't force another person to feel the same way as you do. In fact, the more you force it, the more you risk pushing them away.
You can't just treat a girl like the person you want her to be. If you want her to be your girlfriend, ask her out.0