Okay so I've been dating this guy for a month. We've known each other for like 4 months before started dating. Today is his ex girlfriends birthday. He told me his mom gave money to buy her a gift. Which I know unless he asks his mom to give money she won't just specifically give money for that. And he asks me in my opinion what he should give to her as a present. I'm like dumb founded. What am I supposed to say to that? And as his opinion he says how about flowers, chocate and a bear? I had no words to offer to him at this point. It pissed me off so bad. What the hell is going on? Are men going dumb by the second or does he still have feelings for his ex?
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Ouch, dense right off the bat? really?
having feelings for an ex is totally normal for one...
buying gifts for a recent ex, not so much...
asking your current gf what to buy for your ex-gf.. now that there.. is absolute density.
instead of being mad at him and driving him back to his ex... i suggest you help him. tell him what to get for her.. make it simple enough that she attempts something (chocolate) and then assert to him that she is his EX and he has YOU now and that should be a birthday and goodbye gift. because she is old news now.
your showing of understanding will make transitioning over to you fully.. a whole lot easier. because he will feel safer.0
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