I think it was probably 4 years ago where I went through my butthurt teenager phase and began lifting because i thought it equaled sex (lol) and about 2 years later i started taking body building seriously because I was addicted to the culture. My preference in women hasn't changed... i tend to like soft, intelligent, kind, athletic, women but i find that they arnt that attracted to me. The ones that tend to be attracted to me are the sterotypical college girl that i dont really like that much.
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Yeah I really don't like too much muscle mass on a guy my boyfriend is really slim and only a bit toned but I love it. Too many muscles just look too lumpy and I feel like I wouldn't be able to hold him close enough and the sex would be weird and you can see all the veins and I just don't think I could get turned on by a really muscly dude but that's just my preference cuz I like skinny guys. I like being able to easily wrap my arms around a guy and I am a really small person so I don't want to feel ridiculously small beside a guy like even though my boyfriend is 6'1 he's very slender so I don't feel overwhelmed I guess and he's easy to snuggle. I like a smooth streamline body not all lumpy and hard I don't know lots of women absolutely ADORE muscly guys though! Maybe take up swimming for a while to build longer leaner muscles instead of bulky ones if you are concerned? But really I would say if you enjoy the body building culture meet a girl who is into body building too because then you don't have to change yourself and you already have something in common!0