What's the best way to learn how to talk to women and improve your confidence with them?

Is it literally just to talk to as many women as possible wherever you are?


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  • The best way to learn is by talking to women! The more you do this, the more practice and experience you have. This will help you see what works and what doesn't.

    You learn to read people and find out what makes you successful with women.


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What Girls Said 1

  • To improve your confidence, just start talking to as many women as you can, wherever you are. just start with a hello and some small talk and soon you won't be so anxious about talking to women.


What Guys Said 1

  • I've always found that thinking of women as people was helpful. It seems to work pretty well ;)

    But seriously, it's like medical inoculation--the more you get rejected, the more you realize it doesn't matter--some girls will like you, some won't. It doesn't say anything negative about you or about them. Go in expectation free, keep it fun and lighthearted. I would suggest for a while, don't even worry about asking for dates--just get used to being able to enjoy talking to girls, having fun teasing, etc. Then work on eye contact, body language, etc.

    Also, don't think "monolithic women." What kind of women are you interested in? Particular educational/professional background? Particular kind of personality? Beliefs? etc? How do those kind of girls respond to particular ways of approaching, talking, joking, etc?

    Remember, fun and lighthearted.