Me and the girl I'm seeing are both in our mid 20s and we're both working professionals, yuppies if you will, at what should be pretty similar levels of income.
We had our first date in a cafe, nothing big, and I paid for the evening. She didn't offer but no big deal, it was a small thing and I kind of expect to pay on the first date anyway.
Then we had our second date recently- went to a comedy club (which I got the tickets for) and had a few drinks. I though it would have been appropriate that if I got the tickets she'd offer to pay for the drinks. If not the first round then at least the second round.
Nope, nothing from her. She just kind of seemed to expect me to get everything for her.
Other than that I quite like her and the conversation flows well but I consider it a big red flag if a girl never offers to pay. I'm not wealthy enough yet (though my income should increase substantially in the next few years) to foot the bill fully on all dating activities.
I'm wondering is this normal behavior (i. e would a lot of girls do this) and whether there is something I can do to let her know that I'd appreciate it if she contributed too.
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It is, depending. I qas always conditioned to expect the fiest time to be paid by the gentleman, but then gp Dutch after that. Or maybe she sees it as chivalrous for you to pay. Either way, casually bring up "is it cool we're separate?" & observe her expression. She should catch your drift.3