I mean, I've dated with guys who has less money than me, & for me it's not important, but it looks like for them it is. They start to cancel dates or not accept invitations to clubs or something like that.
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I think the title is misleading. Correct me if I am wrong but in this case you are talking about financial positions I believe?
It will be harder for men to impress a woman who is financially superior to them. I've been there before and I can tell you even the woman did not care, I still feel very tremendous pressure when I gave gifts for special occassions. Good quality stuff costs. I am not talking about throwing money at her. Even if he put a lot of effort in thinking what type of gift to give, at the end of the day you have to spend at least certain amount of money to get decent quality.
Now here comes the important part. Decent quality for you might mean premium quality for him. This goes for restaurants, clubs, drinks, planning for a trip, activities etc. and most men do not like to admit when we cannot afford things, because it hurts our ego. We seldom admit when our ego gets hurt, but we usually try our best to avoid these situations. Being with a financially superior woman is a challenge for most men, especially at the start, when both are trying to figure out each others' expectations and trying to establish an impression and pattern of interaction. When things get uncomfortable for men, dates get cancelled.
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