I'm not hideous but not gorgeous and i've never been approached by a guy ever and i live in NYC so I'm around a ton of people on a daily basis. Is it something i'm doing or are men just not like that anymore? Also i'm a very nervous person so i dont approach men.
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It depends on the guy... generally confident men will approach a women if they are given a sign, like prolonged eye contact followed by a smile. Maybe you don't give men any signals. Usually when a man feels you are attracted to him he will have the confidence to approach you. You have to be open to being approached, if you have closed body language or have a stern look on your face this can repel men. When you make eye contact with a guy you find attractive hold his gaze maybe throw in a cheeky smile... if he's confident enough he will approach you however shy men may never approach women.
VERY confident men may approach without any signs.0