I'm really into traveling/photography and working from home/freelance.. I'm still finishing up college (psych major) but I'm not sure anymore if this is even my passion. I don't have a stable career and it makes me self conscious. Don't get me wrong, I own a really nice BMW that I paid off. I live in a really nice apt with my room mate... But I guess what I'm asking is, is my lack of direction a turn off to a guy? I find myself pushing people away because I feel like they might be disappointing in my lack of a stable career.
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It wouldn't stop me from dating you. Nor would it stop me from getting in a relationship with you if you have got it nice in other areas. I will explain... people want to see that you '' strive'' for something.. not necessarily that you have already ''attained '' it. Like women get attracted to a guy with ''ambition'' even though he is not very well off '' now'' .. but his energy and the sparkle in his eyes makes them know he is ''on to something'' .
I dont think you should hold your self from dating at all... when i am getting to know a woman for the first time... i am not very much looking for what she has now.. i am looking for someone who has the same ''ambition'' .. someone who doesn't stay still and not go forward... i don't care if she hasn't found her calling as long as she is aware of it and is trying... the fact that she is '' trying'' is all you need.
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