With the luck I've had in dating, I'm convinced I will be one of those people who is going to be forever single. I've been dating different people, but it's never a good match. It seems like other girls have it easier because they can meet a guy and click spontaneously with them. Maybe it's different for me because I'm more introverted, and I like anime, reading, comics, writing, and music. I do like going out with my friends and traveling, but the only guys that notice me are the ones who want superficial or casual relationships. What can I change to meet the right person?
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No, not everyone. But more people than less. Almost all of the girls I knew from university that were alone in their late 20s all started saying "I'll never find someone". And they are almost all happily married with kids now, it just took until their mid-30s to find the right guy. They didn't want to settle, so they made the decision to just be happy with themselves, be ok if they didn't find a guy, but stayed open to the possibility that the right guy was actually out there. So, I wouldn't despair if I were you, it is more a case of not finding the right group of possible dates than the fact that you are broken (though I do admit this is an assumption on my part, I don't know anything about you other than a few common interests).
A lot of the people I hang out with now have those same interests, so there most certainly isn't anything wrong with the interests per se. You need to consider how you are looking for people, perhaps. As an introvert you won't have as many of those 'quick meet and quick click' situations simply because you don't have as many 'quick meets' in the first place. Extroverted girls that seem to 'always just click with a person' don't 'always' click, it's just they meet more and so have more opportunities for the click to happen. You just don't see, or don't notice, all of the 'missed' connections. With introverts, there are less 'numbers' involved, so the people you do meet need to be closer aligned in likes and interests to begin with so the odds of clicking are higher. Make up for lower raw numbers by increasing the likelihood of clicking with the people you do meet.0