Ok say you're dating this guy... he has a lot of qualities that others might assume he's gay. Like having a good fashion sense. I have a good fashion sense,I got complemented almost everyday on what I wore but I also had a lot (A LOT) of people ask or ask around if I was gay. I like to fix my hair and stuff, I play tennis, and I'm emotional. I like Coldplay too (lol) but only a few songs and pl assume I'm gay. I have a girlfriend and they STILL think I'm gay! What would you think of him? And if you weren't dating him what would you think?
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I think you sound like a great, sensitive, modern guy surrounded by immature people who stereotype others in the most crass ways possible!
People should realize that there is no correlation between behaviours like dress sense and emotional sensitivity and sexuality. One of the glorious things about human beings is that we come in many varieties, and we should celebrate the fact that there isn't one kind of gay person and one kind of straight person. There are many guys who have far more 'camp' behaviour than you, who are actually straight. Equally, one of the most 'manly' guys I know is gay.
Just get on with being yourself. I suspect that as you get older, the problem will fade away as people get more experience and become more mature. Good luck!1
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